emberresources

a curated list of organizations, hotlines, and tools for the lgbtq+ community. ember does not run any of these. they're here because they help.

crisis & immediate supporttherapy & mental healthtrans, nonbinary & gender-affirmingsexual & general healthlegal protection & advocacycommunity & connectionfor specific situations

crisis & immediate support

if you're in crisis right now, real humans are available to talk.

  • 988 suicide & crisis lifeline
    us — call or text 988, available 24/7

    free, confidential support for people in distress and prevention/crisis resources for you or your loved ones.

  • the trevor project
    lgbtq+ youth — call 1-866-488-7386, text START to 678-678, or chat online

    24/7 crisis intervention for lgbtq+ young people under 25. trained counselors who actually understand.

  • trans lifeline
    us — 1-877-565-8860 · canada — 1-877-330-6366

    peer-support hotline run by and for trans people. no non-consensual active rescue policy — they will not call police on you.

  • lgbt national hotline
    us — 1-888-843-4564

    free and confidential peer support for the lgbtq+ community of all ages. no time limit on calls.

  • find a helpline (international)

    directory of free, confidential support helplines in 130+ countries. filter by topic and identity.

therapy & mental health

  • inclusive therapists

    directory of therapists committed to anti-racist, lgbtq+-affirming care. filter by identity, modality, and what you need.

  • therapy den

    progressive therapist directory. detailed filters for orientation, gender identity, and what they actively specialize in.

  • open path collective

    sliding-scale therapy ($30-80/session) for people without sufficient insurance.

  • pride counseling

    online therapy specifically for the lgbtq+ community. subscription model, weekly counselor sessions.

trans, nonbinary & gender-affirming

  • point of pride

    free programs for trans folks: chest binders, femme shapewear, hrt access, surgery aid grants.

  • gender confirmation center

    extensive resource library on transition-related care, insurance navigation, and surgery info.

  • plume

    us telehealth for gender-affirming hormone therapy. licensed in most states. flat monthly fee.

  • folx health

    queer- and trans-focused virtual healthcare. hormone therapy, sti testing, primary care.

  • national center for transgender equality

    know-your-rights guides for housing, employment, healthcare, identity documents, and more.

sexual & general health

  • glma — find an lgbtq-friendly provider

    directory of healthcare providers who are explicitly affirming of lgbtq+ patients.

  • planned parenthood

    sexual and reproductive health, sti testing, hormone therapy at many locations, gender-affirming care.

  • lesbian & bisexual health (office on women’s health)

    us gov resource covering preventive care, sexual health, mental health, and finding affirming providers. plain language, well-maintained.

  • national lgbtqia+ health education center (fenway)

    clinical guides and patient education on lgbtq+ health from the fenway institute. detailed, current, evidence-based.

  • getting tested (cdc)

    find free and low-cost sti testing locations near you in the us.

legal protection & advocacy

  • lambda legal
    help desk: 866-542-8336

    national legal organization fighting for lgbtq+ civil rights. free legal help line.

  • aclu lgbtq+ rights

    know-your-rights resources, current legal cases, and advocacy on lgbtq+ issues.

  • movement advancement project (state-by-state)

    interactive maps showing lgbtq+ legal protections (or lack thereof) by us state. useful before moving or traveling.

  • transgender legal defense & education fund

    free legal help for trans people facing discrimination, name change support, id document help.

community & connection

  • pflag

    400+ local chapters for lgbtq+ folks, families, and allies. real in-person community.

  • centerlink (find an lgbt center)

    directory of lgbt community centers worldwide. many offer support groups, social events, healthcare referrals.

  • meetup — lgbtq+ groups

    in-person social groups for everything from book clubs to hiking to game nights.

  • her — sapphic dating + community

    biggest social/dating app for queer women, trans, and nonbinary folks. has community spaces beyond dating.

for specific situations

  • true colors united (lgbtq+ youth experiencing homelessness)

    national org working to end homelessness among lgbtq+ youth. find shelter and resources by location.

  • sage (lgbtq+ elders)
    sage hotline: 877-360-5428

    support, advocacy, and services for lgbtq+ adults 50+. friendly visitor program, hotline, resources for caregivers.

  • q christian fellowship

    inclusive community for lgbtq+ christians. discussion groups, conferences, and resources for reconciling faith and identity.

  • asylum seeker resources (immigration equality)

    legal services and policy advocacy for lgbtq+ and hiv-positive immigrants and asylum seekers.

a note from us

this list is not exhaustive and does not constitute professional advice. the orgs are independent of ember — we don't receive anything from listing them. if a resource here is broken, has issues, or you know of one we should add, let us know through your beta invite channel.

if you're in immediate danger, call your local emergency number (911 in the us) or the relevant crisis line above. you matter and there are real people who want to help.

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